I sang at a church again today. It went really well. The Reverend’s talk was on passion, finding your passion, etc, how we all have a purpose in life, something we specifically came here to do.
I went out to lunch after with DJ and DR. They asked how I was doing re: upcoming divorce etc. I said I felt like major decisions/choices to make will be coming up in a very short time – and I’m flailing in the middle because 2 major life choices seem to be at opposite poles.
Most of my income is currently from my teaching practice. I prefer teaching in my home, because it’s Quiet! & I keep all the money, but I also do some teaching at a local studio. I don’t make quite enough to support myself, but could if I took on another 10 or 20 students.
If my goal is to build on my teaching practice, when this house sells I’ll need to look for another house, as opposed to a small (cheaper) apartment, that I can teach out of. Which of course comes with the need to build and keep up the larger teaching practice in order to support the house! The middle class conundrum!
My other choice is to leave. Just get out of here. Jump off that proverbial cliff and start booking myself around the country as a musician. Others do it, even though it can take years to build . But that being my passion, why not now, when I’ll be free as a bird with good health, all the equipment I need and two great CDs under my belt.
But what if that doesn’t work out? What if I don’t succeed? I’ll still have bills. Can I support myself? What if I get tired of that lifestyle and need to come back one year/five years later, then, to what?
And I’m craving a home base. A place to unpack and paint the walls in real colors. I want to set up my office and hang up my clothes.
DR said, why do you have to choose choice A or B? How about C?
I said “What’s C?”
He said “get a house where you can put your bags down for now, and teach out of, and have roommates to cover the home expenses through rent. Then you’ll have your home base, you’ll have an investment, and just take it from there.
DJ said “You’re going to need an agent if you’re going to go out on the road. You can’t do this all yourself.” She said she has a few people she knows she’s going to put me in touch with.
Slowly things are coming more into focus.